YOUR FAST-TRACKED GUIDE TO SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY
The
breakthrough method
Desire Types
TM
The Desire Types show why some pairings feel magnetic and others fall flat, even when there’s love. Once you know your Desire Type blend, mismatched desire starts making sense — it’s not always incompatibility, it’s misinterpretaion.
By learning your strongest types, you stop personalizing your partner’s differences and start building connection from understanding, not assumption.
You see, the thing is, Mismatched desire isn’t about libido — it’s about language.
Most people don't know their desire type combinations.
Perhaps that's why 70% of couples experience mismatched "libido"
(Or their partners)
You don’t want to feel wanted — you want to be craved.
Modern dating is hard enough — so the last thing you want is to finally meet someone amazing and realise the sex just doesn’t click.
You love your partner, but sex feels like work.
You’re done guessing what your partner wants (or faking what you want).
You can feel when chemistry is off — but can’t quite name why.
If THIS SOUNDS LIKE YOU
Love languages explain how we give and receive affection.
Desire Types explain why you want what you want — and what makes that want disappear.
You’ve learnt about love languages. Now it’s time to learn about Desire Types.
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Because fulfilling sex doesn't start in the body
It starts in the mind
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A new sexual story-- written by you
You'll rewite the sexual scripts that keep you small, ashamed and disconnected. You'll leave with a new internal narrative-- one where desire and self respect coexist, and intimacy feels like choice, not performance
a clear map of your erotic mind
Through the peak lust formula and your desire type combinations, you'll uncover your arousal triggers, emotional needs, and hidden erotic themes. Plus, the ways your attachment shows up in bed
language for your desire
You'll be given the language needed to express your desires. Whether you're the one who wants it more or the one who pulls away, you'll have thw words to talk about sex in ways that creates connection, not conflict
Understand your desire Blueprint
You'll finally understand what you want -- and why it sometimes disappears. By decoding the psychology behind your desire, you'll see whay your desire was never broken-- just misunderstood.
after this course you will gain all of these
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We all inherit unspoken rules about desire, love, and worthiness. In this module, you’ll rewrite those internal scripts — the ones that keep you silent, performative, or disconnected. You’ll learn how to express desire from authenticity instead of fear or obligation.
Creating a New Narrative for Intimacy
rewiting your
sexual script
Module 04
Dive into the ten core Desire Types™ — Sensual, Erotic, Dependent, Tourist, Entitled, Mirror, Stressed, Indifferent, Detached, and Magnetised. You’ll learn how each type expresses and suppresses desire, how they interact in relationships, and what your dominant blend reveals about your needs and turn-ons.
Mapping Your Unique Erotic Blueprint
exploring the
10 desire types
Module 03
Learn to identify your personal “Peak Lust Formula” — the psychological themes that ignite your arousal. You’ll uncover why desire fades, what reawakens it, and how to harness your unique erotic blueprint to sustain long-term attraction.
Uncovering the Psychology of What Turns You On
discovering your peak erotic themes
Module 02
Discover what “sexual compatibility” actually means — beyond libido and preference. You’ll explore how psychology, emotional safety, and attachment shape desire, and learn how to distinguish between genuine incompatibility and patterns that can be transformed with a little understanding.
When It’s Not a Mismatch — It’s a Misunderstanding
the truth about sexual compatibility
Module 01
THE COURSE OUTLINE WITH MODULES
Every relationship contains a subtle dance of closeness and distance. Here, you’ll decode the Pursuer–Distancer cycle. You’ll learn to recognise whether you tend to chase or withdraw, and how to create emotional safety so both partners can relax into connection.
Attachment patterns don’t just show up in love — they show up in bed. This module explores how anxious, avoidant, and secure styles influence desire, communication, and satisfaction. You’ll learn how to shift from reactive to responsive intimacy, and what it means to build a sexually secure bond.
Escaping the Push–Pull Pattern That Keeps You Stuck
How Your Past Shapes Your Pleasure
breaking the pursuer/distancer cycle
sex &
attachment styles
Module 05
Module 06
You want results without being curious, self-reflective, or uncomfortable at times.
You want someone else to change first so you don’t have to adjust anything about how you show up.
You’re hoping the right framework will turn the wrong person into the right relationship. No level of self-awareness outperforms a fundamental mismatch.
You think good sex is purely biological or just about mastering different positions. Technique can amplify desire — it cannot replace it.
This is NOT for you if
You want to create connection and erotic energy that feels steady and alive without needing insecurity, tension, or self-abandonment to spark it.
You’d rather have clarity than guesswork — to know why your desire shows up in some dynamics and vanishes in others, so you stop personalizing it or blaming anyone for it.
You’re tired of thinking something is wrong with you (or your partner) and you’d rather learn how different people require different conditions to access their desire.
You don’t just want more desire — you want to understand how you work, why you work that way, and what actually turns you on at a psychological level.
This IS for you if
Is this suitable for all audiences?
These resources and assessments are intended for adults (18+) due to their focus on sexuality and emotional intimacy. It may not be appropriate for minors or individuals uncomfortable with topics of sexual psychology.
Who is this for?
Anyone curious about understanding what shapes their desire.
The Desire Types™ Method and Decoding Desire Course are for people of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures—single, dating, married, poly, or “it’s complicated.” It’s for anyone who’s ever felt confused by mismatched desire, curious about what turns them on, or ready to understand how their erotic self actually works.
Can my Desire Type change depending on my partner?
Yes, context matters. Desire is relational—you may show up differently depending on who you’re with, how safe you feel, and the dynamic between you. The quiz helps you see those shifts clearly, not freeze them in place.
Does this replace therapy or sex counselling?
No. All of my programmes, resources and assessments are educational and self-reflective. They're not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or professional treatment. If you’re struggling with trauma, distress, or relationship issues, please seek guidance from a qualified therapist or sexologist.
What if I relate to more than one type?
You should. Everyone is a mix. Your top three usually shape most of your experience, but you’ll likely see parts of yourself in all ten types. Take what resonates; leave what doesn’t.
Each one can influence how you express desire in different situations. They’re not boxes to limit you—just insights to help you express yourself more fully.
Could my results change over time?
Yes—and that’s normal. Desire isn’t fixed; it shifts with life stages, stress, and emotional context. Your top type may change as you grow, heal, or enter different relationships. That’s part of the point: to track how your erotic self ebbs, flows and evolves.
